mum always says no frens should be trusted with secrets. i believed her.
untill my mindset was challenged by a christian session on relationships. It said friendships is about opening up and letting yourself to be vulnerable.
So, there was this once i told her (and her and her) about him. She told him, and came back to me with the facts about him that i didn't need to know. I was angry. We didn't talk much after that. Much later i found out that he was angry too.
He told me about the thing i knew long ago but chose to ignore. He was smart to realize the thing between us. I didn't know what to do, so i told him. I trusted him. Within two days he told her. and she told me that he told her about me and him.
I gave friendships another try. I want to enjoy it like i never do.
I thought i need to be accountable so that i won't do the wrong things.
I thought i shouldn't keep things to myself because the fact is that i can't do that and still stay sane.
Y men just can't contain secrets?